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read the posts below, and hm i think ultimately its okay if you clique, cos its natural! who doesnt want to have a group of closer friends?
but asides that point, i think one of the main reasons why people are kinda 'disturbed', so to speak, by our 'clique' is because we arent all in the same class and stuff so people find it strange that we can actually be so chummy with each other. one other reason would also be because our 'clique' has a name - iloveegg family. i guess that's what people feel segregates us from the rest of the cliques - like even when people in peixun talk about going out with you guys, they always refer to us/you all as 'the egg family'. whenever they say that i always feel slightly uneasy, and maybe even guilty, that they actually know what we named ourselves. sometimes i ask myself, are we excluding everyone else? but then i look around, besides the fact that people are slightly intimidated by our named 'clique', we still mix around well with everyone else!
okay i think that was too taxing on your eyes so i shall make an effort to paragraph now. hahahha
as for whether our clique is really all THAT exclusive, the question doesnt really seem to need to be answered, does it? i mean hey, look at the rate our family's expanding! i know sometimes we all get slightly possessive and want to stop adding people into our family, but we just cant help it! (although i really want to stop adding new members after isaac, thanks (x )
but basically what i really want to say is, i think cliques dont really cause any harm. all my years in mg, the formation of cliques havent caused any disunity, but have instead brought everyone closer together. its just like a school-wide understanding that we all have people that we are each closer to. so, i dont see why cliques will cause harm in church as long as we dont (quote mh) 'stick to our cliques like hell'.
but then again, you cant be close friends with the whole world. so why not have a group of close friends and at the same time make new more new friends?
WHEEEEE~~
okay off to practise binomial now ): eurgh math.
read the posts below, and hm i think ultimately its okay if you clique, cos its natural! who doesnt want to have a group of closer friends?
but asides that point, i think one of the main reasons why people are kinda 'disturbed', so to speak, by our 'clique' is because we arent all in the same class and stuff so people find it strange that we can actually be so chummy with each other. one other reason would also be because our 'clique' has a name - iloveegg family. i guess that's what people feel segregates us from the rest of the cliques - like even when people in peixun talk about going out with you guys, they always refer to us/you all as 'the egg family'. whenever they say that i always feel slightly uneasy, and maybe even guilty, that they actually know what we named ourselves. sometimes i ask myself, are we excluding everyone else? but then i look around, besides the fact that people are slightly intimidated by our named 'clique', we still mix around well with everyone else!
okay i think that was too taxing on your eyes so i shall make an effort to paragraph now. hahahha
as for whether our clique is really all THAT exclusive, the question doesnt really seem to need to be answered, does it? i mean hey, look at the rate our family's expanding! i know sometimes we all get slightly possessive and want to stop adding people into our family, but we just cant help it! (although i really want to stop adding new members after isaac, thanks (x )
but basically what i really want to say is, i think cliques dont really cause any harm. all my years in mg, the formation of cliques havent caused any disunity, but have instead brought everyone closer together. its just like a school-wide understanding that we all have people that we are each closer to. so, i dont see why cliques will cause harm in church as long as we dont (quote mh) 'stick to our cliques like hell'.
but then again, you cant be close friends with the whole world. so why not have a group of close friends and at the same time make new more new friends?
WHEEEEE~~
okay off to practise binomial now ): eurgh math.
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